A survey found that many families spend 36 minutes together each day, with only an additional two and a half hours every weekend. The numbers were even worse when it came to how much time grandparents were able to spend with their grandchildren, which averaged out to only six visits per year. Many families even agreed they plan vacations with grandparents just so they can spend time with them.
This demand on time creates a disconnect that makes it hard to really grow together as a family. In some cases there are ways to combat this, such as scaling back work hours and activities and scheduling a regular family night. But for many these plans are not realistic or are very difficult to implement. So how can you fight the disconnect? Here are a few quick suggestions:
Perform household chores together as a family. Instead of leaving cleaning, yard work, laundry and other household duties to a particular member of the family, make it a family affair. Everyone can learn to rake, fold a shirt or participate in making dinner.
Turn off the television and computer for at least one hour every day. This is a simple way to increase that half an hour most families typically get to one hour of quality time. You can use the time for a variety of things: playing games, reading together, having dinner or even working out together. No one will be distracted, and your family will be connecting.
Create an online family calendar. This way, when you do connect with grandparents via Skype or on the phone, you spend less time talking about schedules and more time catching up on the important stuff.
Share recipes, pictures and gifts. Send your favourite recipes in a card. Upload personal photos to share. For a heartfelt personal touch, create your own cards with Sendcere. Easily include your far-away family members and friends in your daily life.
These are just a few basic ways you can fight the disconnect in your family. Life gets busy. Many people struggle to make family time important, but there are ways you can always do better. Make each day meaningful. It is worth the effort to connect both near and far.